Heart broken

Love is beautiful. There is nothing greater than loving someone and being loved back. Loving someone makes it hard to see how life can be without their presence in your life and most of the time that question comes up: “where have you been all my life?”. Life just seems a lot more manageable when you have someone you love, to live it with you. Struggles are just a part of relationships but never enough to come between you and your special person because nothing shall come to tear you guys apart. The best gift we always give to our special person is our heart knowing that they have all the power to break it someday.

Let’s talk about heart broken! I love to say that there is no love without pain just like there is no rainbow without rain. That is just life. But there is a difference between going through downs in a relationship and to actually put an end into that relationship. There’s nothing worst than having to go through a break up with that one person you thought would NEVER leave you. It really sucks and at this point, you’ll just have to face it because no drugs, no alcohol or anything else will make the pain go away. You’ll have to live it and face it. When your heart is broken you feel like nothing in life is making sense, crying all night becomes an habit, listening to sad music makes you “feel better” (just more sad) and opening up to whoever wants to listen is everything you know at that moment.

We have all experienced heart broken at some point of our life and there is no tips to make you feel better than just going through it. The only way to make the pain go away, it’s go face it until the day that pain will simply be a memory from the past. I had to go through it in my past and instead of blaming my ex, I simply decided to see this heart broken as a lesson. From that experience, I have learned to identify what I didn’t like from my past relationship and what I would like to improve in my next relationship.

As human beings, what we do most is that we put the blame on our ex, to make ourselves feel better. Even though you did nothing wrong, take this as something that will make you grow into becoming a better partner, for the next luckiest person in the world. What we mostly do is that after being hurt, we take that decision to never let someone hurt us that much again. Heart broken make us fear love. But what we don’t know is that we might be missing something great. I believe that if we take heart broken as an opportunity to learn more about ourselves, what we want and don’t want from a man/woman it will help us into making the right choices in the future.

Please, let’s not rush into another relationship. It is fine to be and stay single until we heal from it. Nothing is worst than entering a relationship while you are still in love with your ex or still not in peace with the break up. Especially because your new partner has nothing to do with what happened with your last relationship and what we mostly do, is that we put it all on him/her. If you want to make them a favor, take all the time you’ll need to get over it and when you feel ready enough to move on into another chapter of your life, don’t let your fear stop you and LOVE AGAIN. ❤️

No love comes without pain just like good things in life takes a lot of work and patience.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs.

1 Corinthians 13:4-5

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8 thoughts on “Heart broken

  1. I relate with this so much. I went straight to lustful things with little hesitation after my heart was broken. I wasn’t even dating the guy…but I thought he really liked me and he had a girlfriend. I felt really crushed and it ended up near destroying my faith because I just didn’t know how to feel love anymore not even from God. God seemed like he didn’t care about it and was like I told you so….but who knows… I was mad at Him so I acted out and resisted Him.

    I wonder if there’s any love left…

    1. Let me tell you that God is not mad at you, but that is the devil putting those thoughts in your head to turn your back from Him. All He wants is for you to come as you are. Only God can heal that broken heart but what we mostly do, is that we get far from his presence for many and different reasons. Most of the time, it is because of shame, because we asked for signs and still couldn’t let them go. Let go and let God take control of everything. God will NEVER stop caring for his children and will ALWAYS LOVE US. His love for us doesn’t depend on how we see him or how close we are from him. We don’t even deserve His love but guess what, HE STILL DO LOVES US. There is nothing you can do that will change the love of God for you, His love is unconditional. I am glad to see how strong you are for sharing this with us. Let me tell you that everything you are going through will make you GROW, don’t let it bring you down but use it as a lesson for your next relationship that God will bless you with. You’ll get through it and grow through it in JESUS NAME ❤️

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