You are not alone #Metoo

Nights with no sleep,

Going through the same pain

AGAIN and AGAIN

I am the victim but it is not my story

Waking up crying over someone else’s story,

What is that suppose to mean?

Whatever it is,

I am able to feel her pain,

I can feel how it hurts to be seen as a sexual toy,

Just a little something to play with

When THEY feel like it,

We have no say,

Nothing to do against it

We just have to let it happen, right?

Even if we say no, it won’t stop them from touching us without our consent

They are monsters,

They stole our joy from us,

Our body has been stolen,

I feel like all those woman need me to stand up for them,

Those who are silently suffering about their trauma,

Those who have kept it a secret for too long,

I first was scared and confused about those nightmares

But then, I realized that it wasn’t my story

or how it happened to me,

So what if it was somebody else’s story

And that I could do something about it

I can’t change the past and the trauma that came afterwards

But what if I can tell those victims that I hear them, I believe them and that they are not alone.

Even if we don’t have the same story,

We share the same pain

We all want the same thing: JUSTICE.

But the system sucks,

So let’s just make a difference with speaking up the truth, our truth.

It was terrible.

It was awful.

Man by man were using my body to have some fun

I was powerless,

Everything was just happening,

I couldn’t stop it

And the funny part is that even in my nightmares, I had no support.

I was actually being laughed at,

Judged and seen has a b****

For things I/You/We didn’t asked for.

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Change your focus

Most of the time, we are the ones hurting our own selves. Doing too much, loving too much, trying too much to please and impress people around us but for what? What is the point of making people around you happy, when you loose yourself on the way. There is nothing wrong with loving someone but to love someone more than you love yourself will only drive you crazy. Because want it or not, even unconsciously, you’ll be seeking the same love you would like for yourself, from that person. And the truth is that, it is your own job to love yourself first and enough to not be depending on someone else’s love.

At some point of our life, we need to learn how to change our focus. If you have a great person by your side, I am not saying let them go but learn how to put yourself first. Just like most of you, what I do best is to think about other people. Always worrying, trying to make sure that people around me are fine. But what about me? Someone even asked me the question: ” If you care about others, who will care about you?” I replied: “I don’t need to take care of myself or someone to do it for me, God will”. I still do believe that God is taking care of me but I have to make the first step. I can’t keep on doing nothing and hope that God will do everything, NO! He wants us to make the first step, to see how much we are willing to change, what are we ready to do about it and then, He handles the rest.

So you’re maybe asking yourself why things around you doesn’t work your way, why does someone control your mood and your happiness. It is simply because you still haven’t learn how to be sufficient for yourself. You haven’t learn how to be happy alone. If you put your trust in Man, you’ll always be disappointed but God will never give up on you, no matter what. There is nothing you can do that will change God’s unconditional love for you. We clearly don’t deserve it but we have received it by His grace. ❤🙏🏾

Quote of the week ❤

We teach best when we most need to learn

I mean this quote is so deep…

I don’t know if I am the only one thinking that but seriously it is a life changing quote. What I understand from it, is that it is during hard times when WE need help that we give our BEST advice. And I can only agree with that. When I think about it, it is actually true because every time that I have caught myself giving an advice to a friend, trying to encourage them to not give up, was in moments when I, myself felt like giving up. I guess that during hard times, when we get the chance to advice someone, what we do is that we take that precious time to talk to our own selves first. Most of the time, getting wise advice from people make us think that they are flawless and that they don’t struggle but we are wrong. They don’t have it all and most of the time, the best way to LEARN is to TEACH someone else how to get over it. And eventually, believe me, you will overcome your situation too. Some people won’t agree with this, some people will say that how can you help someone if you are still struggling with the same problem. What I think is that a problem shouldn’t stop you from helping someone else. And if doing it can actually make a difference in the other person’s life and your own eventually, then why not?? Only someone who have struggled like you do can give you some good tips about getting over it and yes maybe they are still struggling but they won’t stay in this position forever, just like you will overcome your situation too.

Ps: I heard this quote while watching a TV show and it really touched me, so I had to share it with you all. Struggles are temporary, even if it can be hard sometimes after the storm, the sun always comes back. Blessings are on the way dear friends, much love 💕🙏🏾

Quote of the day

Change is hard at first,

Messy in the middle

And,

Gorgeous at the end.❤

So don’t you focus on how messy things are getting around you but have faith and believe that God is in control. Even if you might not understand His moves, trust Him because He knows what is best for you. And yes, He can hear your silent prayers, those prayers where it is your heart crying out to God but with no words coming out of your mouth. Even if you feel like problems are all around you, remember that it is all in your head and God is actually the one surrounding you. And always remember that, no matter what you’ve done, nothing will change his unconditionnal love for you. HE LOVES YOU, PERIOD!

May God bless you all 💕🙏🏾

Peace

Scars

Once I was ashamed of my scars

but today, they tell a story,

MY STORY

No matter how dark your past is and how many mistakes you have done, the most important thing is to learn from it. Hard times can be a reason for your breakdown or can also be the explanation to your elevation, your blessings.

We always have a decision

to make in life

but

it all starts within us

….

Peace ❤

Ladies, listen up…

You’ll never be enough for the wrong man and no matter what you do, the right one will never leave you.

Sometimes we put a lot of pressure on ourselves just to be perfect for our partner but we are so wrong. First, no one but our God in heaven is perfect. With time, I have understood that there is nothing we can do to keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept. Just like there is nothing you can do to make someone leave when their only wish is to be by your side. So take a deep breath, stop being someone else but yourself and trust me, the right person will love everything that you REALLY are. ❤

You are beautiful, worthy, strong and perfect to the right man that God has created for YOU. So stop stressing and enjoy being yourself.

You

Dear you,

You are the only one who can see the pain through my eyes.

The only one who understands the different meanings of my silence.

Only you know how to read my smile.

Is it a real smile or just me trying to hide all my feelings behind it?

You are the only one who made my life make some sense.

I have met happiness in your arms.

You have teach me a lot of things,

Like forgiveness and patience.

You even teached me how to freely express myself and put words on my emotions.

You have been the best thing that never happened to me.

You have never let me down, even those times when you were right about something.

You know how to put a smile on my face, when everything around me is falling apart.

Making me laugh is what you do best.

You do make me cry sometimes, but I guess all the pain is worthy.

No pain, no gain right? Aha

Every relationships have their problems, us too, we just don’t let them come between us.

With you, situations that are suppose to tear us apart, will only be a reason for us to get more closer.

YOU are loved and appreciated 💕

Peace